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Tue Sep 04, 2018 4:40 am

So this girl started working where I work a few weeks back and I found out the other day that she is feeling me. I am not going to be mean here but she isn't my type. Like she is on the thinner side and just really shy. I don't want to go into detail but I am just not attracted to her like that. How do I let her know I am not interested without being mean about it?

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Wed Sep 05, 2018 6:42 pm

I think honesty is the best policy. Don't just avoid her or whatever or not speak to her as it'd come across rude. Just let her know you see her as a friend and say that you're not really interested in dating currently or something like that. Good luck!
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Thu Sep 06, 2018 12:50 am

I would just tell her you aren't interested. Maybe she is getting mixed singles from you? Like I have had girls like me and didn't even know it because I jwas just generally being nice. I had to tell them otherwise. You can just say you aren't interested in a relationship right now if you want but then she still might keep her hopes open for it.
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Wed Sep 12, 2018 2:11 pm

Ohhhhhh that's a tricky situation! If it was me, I'd rather be told up front, politely of course.

"Hey, we can be friends. Just not interested in a relationship is all."

Straight up, and to the point. And you perfectly go your point across =)
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Sat Oct 20, 2018 2:57 am

Whatever came of this dude? I am curious. Someone I know is having the same issue now and I really don't know what to tell him. I never had this happen to me.
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Fri Oct 26, 2018 5:18 am

Yea man Im with Xport! I wanna hear what happened to this if anything came of it. Lotta good advice here, so I wanna know if you got it figured out, or what happened.
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